Messy housekeeping...

I am a messy person. I wanted to be organized and neat. That being said, I continuously forget about things I am suppose to do. My hubby will get mad at some of my habits. 
He always want to keep the kitchen cup boards closed. I agree to that and promised to keep them closed. this is my first confession. Think of me making coffee. I take the coffee powder, sugar and whitener from the cup board. Make coffee and give it to every one. The things will go back to the cup board. After a few minute, hubby will be irritated and bothering me with "I told you to keep that closed" and I have no clue why I didn't closed. 


Another thing that bothers him is my dish sponge in the sink. I use the sponge to wash some thing, and totally forget about where I leave it after use.


Sometimes I promise to myself to do these little things properly and remember for a couple of days. But, the mind and hand forget what i am supposed to do. As a consequence, there will be unpleasant moments at the house. 


The cycle continues....Am I the only one with messy housekeeping habits?????